My take on HP is:
Grace is a gift
We don't have to earn it
You can't get 'extra brownie points'
We all get the same quantity of Grace
Jesus doesn't take off points for past
failures
The only one who does that is US
it's a self inflicted wound
The total amount of resources Jesus
made available to us at 9 months old,
was still there at 29 years old and
will still be there at 69 years of age.
He doesn't take off points for past failures...
it's a self inflicted wound to do that.
We basically get unlimited first downs.
Every time we take a breath, it's first and ten.
Even if we got sacked for a loss the last
50 or 500 times the ball was snapped.
David Bruce Jr.
Baltimore MD
Assign Blame and Keep Score
that's what you're reduced to without functional boundaries
Victim Behavior comes from Damaged Boundaries, All addicts are at their core, codependents first. You cannot be one with out being the other. See a sister blog here: Codependent Boundaries
Tuesday, August 16, 2005
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