Why would anyone choose to be a Victim?
what is attractive about being a victim?
That's easy.. it's unconscious, you don't "set out" to be a victim.. but unconsciously you LOVE IT.
Codependents like being victims... not from any conscious deliberate choice but due to parenting abuse.. they've come to view sympathy as a narcotic.
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Victim Behavior comes from Damaged Boundaries, All addicts are at their core, codependents first. You cannot be one with out being the other. See a sister blog here: Codependent Boundaries
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