the first thing I'm going to write about is willpower.
I recently had the experience of having to replace my car's alternator.
I had to wait a month to save up the money to fix it.
during that month, I bought a battery charger, I pulled my battery out and recharged it every night...
My recovery is very much like this experience:
Moving to Frederick away from Baltimore(and away from the sources of my temptations) were like recharging my abstinence battery.
Better than being broke down, but not repaired:
I constructed in my mind, an alternator software, a will power alternator-
more coming soon
Victim Behavior comes from Damaged Boundaries, All addicts are at their core, codependents first. You cannot be one with out being the other. See a sister blog here: Codependent Boundaries
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