Long time no post...
I've fallen off the wagon with my various victim behaviors, lost the domain names, web hosting accounts,
Gotten evicted (knew it was coming, let it happen), slept in my car for
a week (in early winter... Baltimore is far enough north to get really
cold sometimes)
Now I'm living with my children, ex-wife is 2 weeks clean from crack, booted out
ex wife, moved out of an apartment with a crack
addicted, manipulative roommate, gotten saved and baptized at the
church that is my biggest customer
And what have I learned?
I was wrong.
Well
Didn’t have enough info
What happens when you suddenly have a boundary system when you didn't
have one?
You get to your core.
I learned volumes about self destructive behavior, MY self destructive
behavior from a movie on gambling addiction.
At my core I still don't like myself
More, much more later
Love you
David
Victim Behavior comes from Damaged Boundaries, All addicts are at their core, codependents first. You cannot be one with out being the other. See a sister blog here: Codependent Boundaries
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